dashing.mare
04-07-2009, 12:31 PM
Hi,
I'm just emerging as what seems like at this time more lesbian than Bi (been about 9/10 months).
I was mucking around with a friend and we made jokes about doing stuff together. Then about a week later she told me she was having feelings for girls after about a month she said they were towards me. I told her I liked her too. I think part of that was its seemed so easy for us to like each other as we had been joking about it. She has an abussive Boyfriend which she cant leave as she cant afford to live properly and she will have nowhere to go. She cant live with me as my living arrangements wont allow it. I also cant see us being anything long term. And she can't provide me with what i need
On top of that there is another girl who i like who is struggling big time with medical issues. She is kind, caring and just really really special. We are friends but her life is too hectic at the momment for her to be dating.
I'm not exactly good looking and i cant see anyone being more than friends with me. I have never really met someone who has liked me as more than a friend.
I'm getting really lonely and i just want some to cuddle me. I'm not the sort of person who goes out night clubbing or stuff like that. And if i put on the confidence act it seems people hate me.
I dont know what else i can do to meet people. I tried oasis active but wasnt any good at that sort of meeting people either.
Any tips, suggestions or ANYTHING would be appriciated
Thanks
Dashy
I'm just emerging as what seems like at this time more lesbian than Bi (been about 9/10 months).
I was mucking around with a friend and we made jokes about doing stuff together. Then about a week later she told me she was having feelings for girls after about a month she said they were towards me. I told her I liked her too. I think part of that was its seemed so easy for us to like each other as we had been joking about it. She has an abussive Boyfriend which she cant leave as she cant afford to live properly and she will have nowhere to go. She cant live with me as my living arrangements wont allow it. I also cant see us being anything long term. And she can't provide me with what i need
On top of that there is another girl who i like who is struggling big time with medical issues. She is kind, caring and just really really special. We are friends but her life is too hectic at the momment for her to be dating.
I'm not exactly good looking and i cant see anyone being more than friends with me. I have never really met someone who has liked me as more than a friend.
I'm getting really lonely and i just want some to cuddle me. I'm not the sort of person who goes out night clubbing or stuff like that. And if i put on the confidence act it seems people hate me.
I dont know what else i can do to meet people. I tried oasis active but wasnt any good at that sort of meeting people either.
Any tips, suggestions or ANYTHING would be appriciated
Thanks
Dashy